Raba Kqafa

So, wata Kqawa has offered to help in my search by hooking me up with sm pple she knows. This is positive but I can't help but think... "if they're wonderful why hasn't she chosen any one of them?"... " are they her cast-offs?"..... I have been going over this for a few days now and I have decided I don't care... One man's poison.... besides, which of one of you can say that your partner is not another's cast-off?.. So y'see it's no matter. So long as dai they're not in love with my friend.... Oh duniya! have you heard about similar circumstances where the man marries ME and then eventually marries my FRIEND as a second wife?.. Wai!.. Allah Ya raba mu da ganin wannan. Amin.... anyway, I digress...

So I'm going to call my friend and tell her to go all out; he should be a man who's ready to settle and not a boy... The only proviso is that she doen't make me sound desperate because I am not ;-)

Hn-uhn!!

Being a "nice Hausa girl" somethings are just not done, like admitting you're looking for a man..... or are they? At least not openly. So here is the deal... I AM hiding behind my blog. No point denying what we already know!.. I'll be writing about my experiences both good and bad. I only pray that when aka shafa Fatiha, my SKYHIGH status is still intact!. Amin..
... Enjoy... A hankali of course